A piece of advice about finding the "one"

There is a murphy rule I made up for relationships.

If you are constantly looking for a partner in your life, or, in a desire of having a partner, most likely you won't be able to find someone nice. You probably are going to find someone meh or not going to find anybody at all.

If you want a real relationship, you have to stop desiring it. When you stop desiring it, universe will bring her/him to you naturally.

Simply: stop desiring it and you will find your beloved one naturally.